Why Did You Become a Teacher?
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I have one of the most interesting jobs ever. I am a high school teacher. Many people cannot believe I love being around teenagers. I have the utmost respect for elementary teachers because I do not enjoy the younger children as much. They just do not understand me. I am sarcastic and love to joke around. High school kids get it.
Every year my kids are enlightened that I am a teacher who “used” to be young and who “has a life” outside of school. You know what I mean. You usually never get to see your teachers except at school. I remember seeing a teacher or two at the grocery store and feeling it wasn’t natural that they were out of the classroom and the school building. Silly, I know, but that is how kids think, even the older ones.
Inevitably, my kids want me to tell them about my college days. They think of wild parties and skipping class, and they just can’t imagine me in that role. Well, they are right. I wasn’t part of that crowd. They are surprised to hear my story.
The Beginning of My Journey - Marriage
First, I tell them I did everything backwards. They relate to this scenario because most kids have an adult telling them they are doing things wrong and in the wrong order. Well, I was that kid, too. I was in high school for the social aspect and cared nothing about my classes. I made decent grades, but I never tried. They are shocked because they think all teachers were always “nerds.”
I go on to tell them that the first thing I did after high school was get married at the age of 18. I was raised to believe girls became wives and mothers. My mother was 44 years older than me and old fashion. She got married at 15 – not with her parents’ approval. I thought that was what I should do, too. My aunts and uncles were completely against it and felt I should go to college. I was not ready for college. I was too immature and stupid for getting married, but no one could tell me that.
I was completely against college. No aspirations at all in that direction. My students are completely taken aback to this information because I am always pushing them to discipline themselves in order to survive in college and the workplace. I tell them that I was one of those kids who would have really screwed up a college career by partying and skipping class. “You have got to be kidding!” is their response. In their minds, teachers don’t and never were supposed to have a life. It is so funny. I go on to tell them I am glad I got married though I do not recommend it at that young age because it is hard. You have to grow up fast when you live with another person who does not do the same things in the same way your family does. At that age, many of us think everyone thinks the same way we do. There were many fights and many walk outs those first few years. It was hard, hard, hard.
Then Comes Baby
Second, we had our son. When I tell them this part, I purposely leave out how long we were married before we had our son. I can see them mentally counting in their heads and wondering if I “had” to get married. It seems to boggle their mind that “Ms. Priss” might have gotten pregnant before being married. Finally, I let it drop that we had been married for two years before we had him. Again, it was hard. Both of us were too young to be dealing with a baby. Juniors and seniors really need to hear this. Some of them are just looking for someone to love. I tell them that the extra responsibility of being married and having a baby is difficult because you have two other people with much higher expectations than even your parents have for you. There were lots of fights, but our son created a responsibility and a mutual love that kept us together. This is not always the case, though.
I Had to Work
Third, I realized I had to work, so I worked in a flower shop, retail, and a grocery store. I could not stand working with cranky customers. So, finally, I decided I want something better for my son and family. I applied for college. My husband was in the military and was working on a business management degree, so we both did things backwards. I had no clue what I wanted to do. Looking at the class, I usually see a few heads shaking up and down in understanding. I reassure them that I had been out of high school for four years, and I still didn’t know what I wanted to be.
I Wanted More
When I went to my college orientation, I followed the group of elementary teacher majors. I decided that was what I wanted to be. So, college started and I was thrown into a world that I was not prepared for because I blew off high school. I would be sitting in class and would hear a word like, “psychoanalysis.” In the far reaches of my mind I could remember that word from, from, from… somewhere. I couldn’t remember what it was or what context it was used in. Of course, my mind was working and telling me, “If you had paid attention in high school, you would know this and it would be easier.” No truer words.
They want to know what kind of student I was in college. I tell them I was a wonderful student in college because there was more riding on it than what I wanted. I had a family at home. I had to keep a certain grade point average to keep my loans, scholarships, and grants. I also realized that I loved studying, learning, and researching. Some of them can’t imagine.
I tell them that you have to feel responsible for your own education, which is why I do not believe parents should pay for their kids’ college (another hub). They have to find something that will anchor them to their education so they can claim ownership. We do not seem to appreciate what we have, especially when we are young, if we do not have to work for it or pay for it in some way.
How I Found My Niche
So, what happened after college? Well, I had to do my student teaching in first grade and in junior high. The first grade segment wore me out. “Teacher, teacher, teacher???” Their little voices drove me crazy – bless their sweet little hearts. We take for granted the smallest things – tying shoes, 2+2=4, being potty trained, etc. I went home exhausted every night and wondered if I had made a mistake. Then my second round of student teaching was in junior high, and I had so much fun planning the lessons and being with the students. Fortunately, I did a good enough job that the principal recommended me for a high school position.
The high school principal told me I had two years on a temporary certificate to get my high school certification. So, back to school I went. I didn’t stop until I got my masters. Now, nearly 20 years later, I still love the job and the kids.
Why Share This Story with Students?
You might wonder why I would share this story with my students. I want them to know I am human, and I had all the same fears and questions they have about life. I made mistakes, but I learned how to turn them into something good. There was no wallowing in my own complaints or excuses. I had to be responsible. I tell them the earlier they understand that there is a reason for their education the easier it will be for them to apply it to life, whether it is in college or in the workplace. I go back so I can relate to them and they can relate to me.
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This is awesome. I started (but did not finish) college with the intention of becoming a High School teacher. I also love teenagers! And, the best teachers I ever had were the ones who were totally human - good call on letting them know that's just what you are!
They are - and honestly - I believe there's still enough of a child in there that you can really influence them to do good, but enough of an adult that they want to really DO it, and make it happen, you know? Consider yourself blessed, my dear. I'm sure you do already, but God has given you a great charge and a great blessing. May he be with you as you guide our future leaders!
Wow. That was so amazing. Life was so completely different for you. But Im happy that you actually stuck up with your studies..without letting your family getting affected. Inspiration.
I first came to work to school back in 2005. I was young and full of hopes. School works isn't as interesting as it might seem. At least for me. Besides, it is poorly paid in my country.
Interesting story, and I congratulate you for finding your niche. I got certified to teach here in Texas and while I was waiting to get hired I began substitute teaching. It was a nightmare for me, not just because I was the "sub" but because I don't know enough about kids. I don't have any of my own and I just can't relate to the attitude they have these days. And the little ones wore me out, as you said. They are exhausting! So, I decided not to pursue the field, but kudos to those who do. It's not an easy job but teachers like you make kids better for the rest of us. Thanks!
I always feel , the life of a teacher is always exiting. Spending time teaching kids is the best part of any Teachers life. I choose to be a Teacher.
I find I remember the teachers that added a little 'personal' to their teaching. Praise and commonality are desperately needed at any age through school. I don't feel I got a lot of either. I too am feeling my way closer to the teaching/counselor profession and I am excited to be able to help in children building their self esteem, self acceptance and self love. Thanks for sharing...useful/awesome
Very cool hub Sholland. I think it's awesome that you level with them! My husband and I were just saying we find it odd that all the kids - no matter what age they are - like to hang out at our house. We aren't cool or push overs - everyone has to behave and be respectful to us and to each other. We decided we think the kids know they are welcome here and there aren't that many people that will sit down and talk to them honestly. Plus everyone wants to eat dinner here except my kids! Lol
You're story is very similar to mine. Although you went on to teach high school (and big Kudos to you...don't think I could do that!) I teach special education to elementary students. I, too, did it "backwards." I got married had two babies and then went to college. My youngest daughter went to many classes with me. I love my job and could never imagine ever doing anything else! Great hub!
Hope you have a great year as well!
I taught Junior High special education for forty years. I love teenagers. I am now retired and have time for my writing. I enjoy your page and look forward to reading more. I am about to start my book on a forty year journey as a teacher. The good, the bad and the ugly, LOL
Best of luck to you
It's great that you are a true person in the eyes of the students. I agree that being a teacher, you should relate your own story to the kids. It will serve as a source of inspiration and motivation to them. Voted up and rated useful.
Great read - inspirational. I teach middle school, people think I'm crazy - lol. I love my students and I enjoy my job. I did not become a teacher until I was 39 - after a long career in corporate management and sales. It is never too late to change careers, study or pursue goals.
Thank you for your hub and wisdom :)
Sholland, what an incredible story. I thank you for being a teacher. It is people like yourself that make a difference teaching our children and I thank you for that. You are the real hero, making a difference and influence on every student that passes through. You deserve a thank you. And for that, I am grateful.
Hi Susan - I'm glad I came by to read this again. I LOVE being a teacher and I can honestly tell you do too! I enjoyed this hub and I really liked your closing. Students need to know we are 'real' and that we had dreams, struggles and road blocks along the way. I want my teaching to go beyond the textbook and you are doing the same. Thank you for being you and for being a wonderful advocate and role model.
Voted up and across! Love the pictures!
What a fantastic Hub! By telling your students about your background, they can see you as a human being. By seeing you as a human being, they can see you as a teacher.
Funny, I am finding some good links back to Hub Pages by my participation at Red Gage. I teach part time in Costa Rica and find your ideas useful. Voted up and interesting!
Oh Lord, I must be the second verse to your song! I did the same thing you did! BAckwards! Only I was divorced and working 3 jobs to get us thru. Somehow I made it and hear I am nearly 20 years later. I wouldn't trade my job for the world even though we have had salary cuts, budget cuts, and increased class sizes. It is just what I do! Thanks for the story, I loved it!
It might sound cliche but I teach because I want to share knowledge with others and income/money always follow. If we do it with heart we'll find teaching really a noble occupation.
Great read! My teaching career is winding down and I still love it. Over the years, I have been involved in teaching adult ed, regular high-school math and chem, and all the "bad" teens in alternative education. I have been teaching math in China for the last four years and having a great time. There's no life like it lol. A different experience every day.
Right on! I taught school for eighteen years (middle school and high school) and every class heard my own personal story because it is so important that they see me as a human being rather than some disconnected teacher who has no experience. I loved your hub and look forward to more from you...and hey, we have the last name which is really cool...my dad's side of the family was from Missouri by the way....:)
Susan I am in awe! It’s clear to see why you are still a teacher and I stayed only 4 years. I definitely did not have the same passion.
I think this would be a useful hub to share with those learning to become teachers. Voting this Up and Interesting.
I smiled throughout while reading this...I have shared with classes about my past as well, with very amusing results! The part when I tell them I ran away from home while a junior in high school, hitch-hiking alone from MN to CA?!
Currently, I teach adults with developmental delays at a non-profit program. The participants cannot believe I finished a GED in my thirties and graduated with honors from UC Berkeley in Disability Studies at the age of 50!
Through personal connections the best learning occurs. No matter what age, we are all just helping each other along in the hopes of having the best life possible. Thanks for reminding me of this...
I come from a long line of teachers. My dad said it was the perfect job for a mother, and I had a scholarship, and I went to the same college my grandparents, parents and anyone else in my family attended. I just did it because it was 1970, and teaching is what most girls did. Who knew I would have the time of my life? Teaching is like a little bit of heaven to me. So glad you are out there with the kids.
I had to chuckle over your words about encountering a teacher in a public place and thinking how wrong that seemed. I always thought teachers were more forbidding and frightening than "regular" people, sort of up there in the alien realm, like doctors!
Your story is interesting and enlightening, not only to your students but to women. Some of us got to where we are by creating a goal and pursuing it; but, I think most get to maturity in more circuitous ways.
I'm sharing your Hub on the Facebook page "A Woman's Life's Work." Voted up, interesting, and useful. :)
I have been a famous teacher on my area and that's why I came to read this hub. I remembered my days as you explained your experience in a very nice way that I lost in it. Well I had a debate at what you said in last i.e. Teacher is also a Human. Thumbs Up!
Beautiful hub. I'm glad you became a teacher. I'm one, too. I don't know if I'm in it for the long haul, but it's certainly allowed me to meet some amazing people. Voted up - I love your story. :)
Hi Susan, seems like quite few of us did it backwards.
I too returned to college with 3 kids and luckily a great and supportive wife.
I originally was going to study performing arts as I messed around in a few bands in my youth but when I got to orientation day I switched to science and technology. My other great love.
I have taught both high school and under graduates. I find high school very rewarding.
Great hub. Letting the students know that we too are human is a win win all round. Voted up awesome,interesting and useful. SHARING
I taught adults English in business offices, schools, airline offices, banks etc in Rome. The students were desperate to learn English for qualifications in the work place asap and the best way to let them feel less inhibited about 'speaking' was to find out what we were all interested in. Once we got that far, we were fine! Inhibitions lessened and 'talking' got a lot better, so did listening and so did the lessons.
Naturally I learned lots about them and that felt really great.
I got a Cambridge Certificate in TEFL when I got a divorce and had to pay for my children's lives and education. It worked out that we made it - through all those hours of teaching.
Really good Hub and voting up etc. Liked the opportunity to share with you.
Thanks
I think it's good that you share your story with them. Students need to see their teachers at peoples with real fears and struggles, and they need to see the importance of education played out. I understand your choice to teach high school, but I really respect elementary and middle school teachers; they are setting the foundation for the children you inherit. I have seen some high schools where the students are too far behind in high school that it is hard for them to catch up and make it to college.
I always thought that it would be more fun to teach the lower grades but after reading your hub I can see why you'd enjoy the teenagers more. I taught computer courses for a few years and I found it such a rewarding job.
Your hub was very interesting and fun to read. It's always nice learning more about hubbers.
Very inspiring hub. I am a private teacher for kindergarten and elementary. My mother is being a teacher as well. So, my soul is a teacher. I love this job where I am surrounded by many kids. Thanks for writing and share with us. Good job and voted up!
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Charlotte B Plum Level 5 Commenter 11 months ago
This hub was such a cool read! I could sense your passion, and I really wish I had a high school teacher like you - I bet your students must really love you too!